I remember my pastor once preaching on the advice of a business book to avoid the “tyranny of the or” and instead consider the “blessing of the and”.

I agree – couple love and mommy love are different. Not better or worse, not more or less just different. Both are crucial to a helathy family life.

I can not imagine my life devoid of either love!

And it seems to me that they each change over the course of a lifetime.