June 3rd, 2004 · Comments Off on We share the garbage
Last Tuesday night, as I gathered the garbage from the upstairs rooms to put into the cans for collection, the girls followed me, watching my work. Abigail and Michaela were surprised when I took the trash from the can on Ted’s side of the bed and exclaimed:
“You share the garbage?!”
Yes, we share the garbage. Isn’t that what love and marriage mean?!
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June 3rd, 2004 · Comments Off on Missing digital documentation
This (Wednesday) morning the girls and I shared the beach with a blue heron. We had turned around the corner on the trail and saw the bird wading in the water at low tide, the smooth shape and elongated neck making easy identification. I reached for my camera – and discovered the battery was low, enough for one quick picture without zoom.

On the beach, we used a net and scope borrowed from the library to capture and view tiny sea creatures. In our sample of water we found a small animal, easily visible to the eye, at least half a centimeter in length, almost transparent, shaped like a shrimp, with big black eyes and arms that swam. We watched it for a while and then gently put it back into the sea, with only our minds to remember it.
Back at home for lunch, as we sat down to eat, I saw first the female pheasant and then the male marching past our window on our lawn. He was majestic in color, bright red, green, with white ring neck, and closer than I had seen him…but as I reached for my camera, I remembered that I didn’t have any battery.
Ah well, all of life was not meant to be stored and kept as digital documents…
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I wish I could encode an olfactory experience to go along with this post.
And I wish I could give away bouquets through this blog.
But reality says I don’t have the technology or the flowers for such a fantasy.
Oh well.
For the moment this photo and imagination will have to suffice.
I just wanted to say Thank You to everyone here.
Enjoy this second day of June!
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June 1st, 2004 · Comments Off on Social gestures and gifts
Scoble today described the social gesture of the link and quoted Dave Sifry saying that getting a link is like receiving a gift. I like giving gifts. Maybe that’s another angle on why I like blogging…
Thinking about social gestures and what gifts do I want to give today…
First, I owe a nice gift to Enoch who let me know this afternoon that my blog was being bombarded by comment spam. I had no idea: I wasn’t getting the email that usually notifies me when a comment has been posted. Thanks! Oh, and I’d like to send something along too to Tania, who has an amazing schedule and endurance with everything happening in their lives…even time to blog again now too!
I owe Lisa Williams a link for the nifty weather sticker I found at her site and picked up last night. In my sidebar also, I created a Celebrations space, where I linked to Lisa – her blog turned four years old yesterday – hurray!
In regards to social gestures and etiquette, Ben Hyde posted the other day a list of ways not to give sympathy. I’m waiting for the opportunity to run out of milk and practice them all, as he suggested. I’m wondering how this list translates into blog etiquette and social gestures…what to do, what not to do…?
What can social gestures and etiquette help me say about Joey deVilla’s post Granddad’s Blog Entry? The diary entries his grandfather wrote seventy years ago inspire me to imagine what I might leave behind. I want to say I’m so sorry for your loss and Thank you for sharing these gifts with us but I don’t know how to express the sympathy and gratitude together gracefully using words on a blog page. Thank you, Joey, for your generosity. Peace and comfort to you and your family.
A gift for Rod Kratchowill’s comment on love, loss and pick-up trucks. Sometimes I wish that more people understood the possibility of loss. I think that there would be more Love in the world.
Finally, a gift for my husband. Any particular reason today? I can’t think of any dramatic demonstration of his love for me that happened this first day of June. But just because. I love you.
updated to add Rod K.’s
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June 1st, 2004 · Comments Off on Doomed
This year we’ve been blessed with a bumper crop of tent caterpillars. The girls like to think of them as pets, although, ever since Abigail had the false chicken pox scare with a rash, we haven’t let her be as friendly with them. Elisabeth can’t say many words, but she will point and stare at one in adoration, the way a teenage girl might gaze at a movie idol on screen. I, however, am not fond or a fan of these pests.
We can’t leave the house without seeing a caterpillar. The other day, on the way outside, I saw one with white dots on its head and body. Despite our record years of tent caterpillars, I had yet to see one that had been parasitized by a wasp. This is a good thing – if you are a human, that is.

As gardener Ann Lovejoy described:
Before spraying with Bt, examine the caterpillars for signs of parasitic wasps. Typically, the tiny wasps lay a single egg on each caterpillar’s head, though an egg may appear anywhere on the body. The white eggs are about the size of a pinhead. Dotty caterpillars are already doomed.
I was excited but Ted said he had already seen many of these this year. Wonder how I missed them. I’m glad to know that a natural predator is beginning to keep the caterpillars under control. Perhaps, as I’ve heard, this will be our last intense year losing foliage to these furry creatures with jaws. I won’t miss them when they are gone.
Now the more I look, the more doomed caterpillars I see. In a sense it is strange to look at these creatures and to know their destiny. To think that anyone can see how they will die. Their destruction is imminent and obvious to all.
Imagine if humans could know their own fate. Or look at someone else and know how she will die. Then again, some humans have their own obvious parasites that destroy them.
Or for another perspective…if only I could look at the evil and destruction in life – the way I look at these parasitized caterpillars in my garden – and know with confidence that they will come to an end soon.
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